What Lies Beneath...

We meet many persons in our lives.. & each person we meet, we get a first impression about that person.. & through situations with that person & this person's behavior, our brain starts to build a full picture for his character.. & upon this picture, we base our judgment on that person.. Is he good? kind? gentle?? boring? ... & moooore..

But, the question is.. Is that enough to judge a person through situations u see that person in or through this person's behavior??
well, the answer in my opinion is "No"..

Through situations in my life, I learned not to judge someone except after knowing -wt I call- "What Lies Beneath"..
Every person in Life has his own problems, situations he's been through that affected his behavior, responsibilities... etc... Every person u meet has sth "Hidden" Lying beneath that body u see, It's sth lying there inside his soul, his heart & his thoughts... This sth influences him in how he acts, how he sees people & even how he forms his attitude towards life..
so whenever someone acts strangely or unkindly or any other behavior you think its non-acceptable, don't ever judge that person except after u know "What lies beneath".. or at least give the probability that there's sth that influenced that behavior..
Sometimes when we know those things, our judgment upon those persons is changed extremely... maybe from anger to understanding.. from hatred to love.. from tough attitude to pity...& more of those "extremes"..

I will just like to end with this sentence..

جعفر بن محمد قال: إذا بلغك عن أخيك الشيء تنكره فالتمس له عذرا واحدا إلى سبعين عذرا، فإن أصبته، وإلا، قل لعل له عذرا لا أعرفه.